"OK, Darris, I understand that you want to believe that the word "marriage" refers to a state which can be described only in religious terms."
It's not that I "want" to believe it. It simply is. Do you want to believe that the sun is going to rise tomorrow? It's not that you "want" to believe that the sun will rise tomorrow but that it simply is.
"I guess you can believe that if you want, but it's clearly not the normal usage of the word."
Not the normal usage of the word but rather, in many circles, an incorrect usage of the word, an incorrect definition and incorrect origin.
"If you want to call such marriages "civil unions", well, you're free to invent your own language, but don't be surprised if English speakers misunderstand you."
I didn't invent it and you understood it just fine (I can't vouch for you wanting to believe or accept it however.) So what am I to think of you then?
"As far as the Bible being the ultimate definer - or creator, as you put it, of marriage..."
Robert, does the Hammurabi condone same sex marriage and what does it define marriage as?
"and the Epic of Gilgamesh - which, as I recall, are believed (by actual scholars) to have been written a millennium or so before the Old Testament."
Good information but I have to ask by your term "actual scholars" do you mean that all the other intellectual PhD's, MD's, Ed.E's and Theologens aren't "actual scholars"??? People like Ravi Zacharias, Max Lucado, Joe White, Nicholas Comninellis, Lee Strobble, etc. aren't "actual scholars"? What constitutes an "actual scholar" to you? Also your actual scholars "believe" that these writings were written before the old testiment but if these scholars aren't even sure then why should I believe it? Because you said so or because they said so?
"Besides, marriage has existed in virtually every culture in the world since (literally) time immemorial, amongst peoples who have been completely ignorant of your Bible until rather recently, in historical terms."
Bravo! Now if we can just answer that nagging question of "Was it a marriage between a man and a woman or same sex couples or both?" We'll be doing all the good.
"In any case, no-one is advocating that same-sex marriages would have to be recognized by any religion"
Please explain since I've already said that a proposal was rejected that contained the words civil union but not "marriage" when by your original logic (in the use of the word "marriage") they're the same thing?
chm,
"Dr D: you seem to want to have it both ways:
-marriage should not be the province of government
-(governmental) laws should restrict marriage"
Um no. Marriage is not the province of government it's the province of the church. Laws don't restrict marriage, rather they do not recognize same sex civil unions or marriage. Same sex couples cannot get a marriage license and are not recognized as married couples, but if they want to have their own ceremony's they can do as they will in whatever fashion they see fit. No one's stopping them, not the law, not me or those that see this the way I do.
"If your church doesn't want to marry homosexuals, I'm sure the government won't force it to. At the same time, if my church does, the government shouldn't prohibit it."
I actually kind of agree with that in that government should not interfere on either point. If a church is willing to marry same sex couples that is that particular churches prerogotive and will only be recognized by that church and the members thereof as well as the couple themselves. However, by changing the definition of marriage to include same sex couples you don't think that if a church decided it would not marry same sex couples that there would not be discrimination suits going out against any church with this stance??? I can guarantee this would happen at which point the judicial branch and governement would be involved and yes, would force churches in opposition to marry homosexual couples.
"The argument you present is rather disingenuous, to whit: the laws protect and reflect my religious beliefs; they should not be changed because government should be kept out of the religious aspects of marriage."
While some law may be fundamentally based on biblical law it does not reflect and in some cases most certainly does not protect my religious beliefs so your argument is silly at best.
"How does the government forbidding a recognized church from marrying homosexuals keep government out of the religious aspect of marriage????"
Come again? I think you may have worded that incorrectly because it looks like it says "How does the government forbidding a recognized church from marrying homosexuals keep government out of the religious aspect of marriage" It doesn't but when did the government forbid churches from marrying homoseual couples??? Not that I agree with the practice but I certainly don't recall the government having any say in the matter where churches were concerned. I've even stated that same sex couples can have whatever ceremony's they want to and if a church of whatever kind wants to officiate said ceremony sobeit, but presently (at least if and until the wording gets changed) the union can be recognized by whomever or not recognized by whomever and is not recognized under the law but does not deny them the right to be together, the right to be happy or even the right to a ceremony.
These changes wanted by the gay/lesbian community can be summed up (imo) this way. They want the laws to be changed and have provisions and language added so that they can feel normal in they're relationships under the protection of laws that grant them more and special rights than they already have even more and special rights than heterosexuals have in some cases (e.g. if someone of the homosexual persuation assaults a heterosexual it's assault. If a heterosexual assaults a homosexual it's a hate crime.) Amazing how that works and it just keeps gettin' better every time I turn around. And Robert thinks we're more free by virtue of these things being done. You can say :hammer: again :hammer: and again :hammer: and so on.
These are my opinions not yours and "actual scholar" researched material for peoples' perusal. Take it for what it is. Agree, disagree, be meloncoly, be happy, be sad, be mad, be minor, be major, be whatever. I'm not for same sex marriages. You be for what you want to be for (and I'll be in Scottland before ye.)
Good night and God bless.
Darris C.
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