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    Word's cannot express

    Just to let you know Steve and Marlena. That all of us here are thinking of you and your family at this sad time.

    Nothing we can say can replace what you have lost.

    No icons...
    Just sadness.
    Love from this side of the pond
    John Karen and Linzi.

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    Just so you all will know.........

    Yesterday afternoon the moderators were sent the following email by Steve. It is devastating and I share it with all of you so that you will join us in sorrow and understanding. The Machol's have asked us to show a smile to a stranger and to make new friends, in short, to be the essence of what Elizabeth was.

    From Steve:

    My beautiful and amazing Daughter Elizabeth has died tragically and unexpectedly. Marlena and I sat helplessly for 2 and 1/2 days as we watched her slip away from us. This is every parent's nightmare and no matter how hard I scream, cry or pinch myself I just can't wake up from it.

    Until I can put up a Memorial site for her, here are a couple of sites from the funeral home and her employers containing her memorial:

    http://www.funeralplan2.com/abby/memorials?id=14775
    http://www.rialtocinemas.com/Elizabeth.htm

    Steve
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    Deepest sympathies for your loss.
    It must be impossible to make sense of these events.
    Regards,
    Rick

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    Steve, just to say how sad I am to hear of such a tragedy. What can we say but you hear something like this and it really puts things into perspective.
    Thoughts and prayers with you and your family.
    Sarah

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    Steve,
    I am so sorry for your loss. My mother once told me this and I cling to it at times like these.

    "People are in our lives for a moment, but in our hearts for a lifetime!"


    I will remember you and your family in my prayers!
    ~Cindy

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    Steve,
    We are very saddened to hear of your loss. Our prayers and deepest sympathies go out to you and Marlena.

    Jerry and Louise

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    My sincerest...

    Steve and Marlena,

    My deepest and sincerest condolences on the passing of your daughter Elizabeth. Hugs and prayers to you both at this time of sorrow. May God watch over you.

    Bob Vartanian

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    Steve & Marlena,

    I am so very sorry for your great loss. My families prayers go out to yours.

    We're so sorry...

    John

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    Every thing else just stops

    Steve and Marlena,

    Words really CAN'T express the sympathy that I feel for you right now. I know that life for you and your family will never be the same. I will keep your family in my prayers. Comfort will come in many forms, but working through grief is a part of that comfort. I'm sure that you will have many wonderful memories to sustain you.

    With much love in friendship,

    Diane
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    My prayers are with you

    I know no words can ever replace the feel of your daughter's embrace.. I did feel the spirit urging me to write. This poem is the result of it..

    My loved one's tears fell down like rain
    As I kissed away this pain
    Leaving my mortal body behind
    As I crossed over in spirit and mind

    I did not take this journey alone
    Angels came to guide me home
    As my eyes adjusted to this place
    Imagine the joy that was on my face

    As I took a good look around
    Many familiar faces were found
    And there holding my hand was Mary Lou
    Pulling me into a hug, saying "Elizabeth, I have missed you"

    She led me to a most wonderous place
    And there I met Jesus face to face
    We talked of my faith, my love, my life
    Of my family of angels who helped during times of great strife

    We talked of my part in His awesome plan
    On that would unite me with you again
    To watch and to guide, to chase away your fear
    To guard and protect, you my friends and family, all I hold dear

    A light of relevation burned down to my core
    My eyes began to water, my spirit started to soar
    It dawned on me that we will be as close as ever
    Because in God's plan a family is Forever...

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    deepest regrets

    Steve and Marlena...

    My deepest sympathies and prayers go out to and your wife. You will be in our prayers..


    gpw_ww

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    Steve & Marlena
    I am so sorry to hear of your loss. You have our greatest sympathies.
    You will be in our thoughts in prayers.
    Suzy & Bill

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    Steve,

    I cannot even begin to comprehend the sadness you and Marlena are going through. Our daughter is the same age as Elizabeth. Kathi and I will keep you in our prayers.


    Tim

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    Deepest sympathy

    Steve and Marlena,

    I am so sorry for your loss.My deepest sympathies in your hour of need.
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    I have been thinking and praying for you both these past few days- which strikes me as an empty thing to say given what has transpired.

    I'm sorry, and I can't think of anything else to say except for that, so I'll just say it again- I'm so very sorry.

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    Dear Steve and Marlena

    You're not alone in your grief . . . we all feel the shock and pain of your loss. Nothing is worse than a parent losing a child. And, if we all could make the pain go away we would. Always know you have a lot of friends who are there for you in any way we can.

    Alan and Marsha W

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    Steve and Marlena, so very saddened by the loss of your beautiful, young daughter, the same age as mine, your loss is not measurable, and our sadness here is but of the joy of knowing you, that your hearts are breaking, and our tears for your loss are on our cheeks....

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    Parents Should Not Outlive Their Children

    and it's incomprehensible when it happens. I keep looking for the right words to say but the truth is, there probably are none. I am sure none of us can understand you and lovely Marlena's personal pain but I hope the love we're all trying to send is in some small way a comfort. My thoughts are with you deeply.



    And please all consider organ donor status.
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    Steve and Marlena..........

    My deepest sympathies to you and your family. My family and i will keep you in our prayers. I'm so very sorry for your loss.

    Sean.

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    Steve & Marlena,
    I am sorry for the loss of your daughter. I am sure there are no words to express or understand your grief but I pray that you and your family will comforted by the wonderful memories shared with Elizabeth.

    Kevin Treat

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    Steve, Marlena, and family,

    With deepest sympathy...remember that love never dies, Elizabeth will live on in the memories of her beloved family and friends.

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    Steve & Marlena,

    Our family's deepest sympathy & warmest prayers are with you in this time of your loss.

    Billy

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    Steve and Marlena~

    I am so shocked and saddened by your loss....cannot imagine your pain....know that we are all thinking of you...know that we are all sending healing thoughts your way...I am so sorry.

    hip chic

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    I'm very sorry to hear of your loss.
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    I am very sorry to hear of your loss Steve.

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